Dialectical Behaviour Therapy

A Visual Guide for TEAM-CBT Practitioners

Origins & Development

Who?

Marsha Linehan, PhD

When?

Late 1980s–1990s

Where?

University of Washington, Seattle

The Problem DBT Was Designed to Solve

Target Population

Originally: Women with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and chronic suicidality

Key Challenge: Standard CBT approaches were ineffective and sometimes harmful for this population

Why? Clients experienced therapists' focus on change as invalidating, leading to dropout and crisis escalation

Client Characteristics

  • Emotional dysregulation and extreme emotional sensitivity
  • Self-harm and suicidal behaviours
  • Unstable relationships and fear of abandonment
  • Difficulty tolerating distress
  • Impulsive, mood-dependent behaviour
  • History of invalidating environments (often trauma)

Theoretical Foundation: The Biosocial Theory

How Problems Develop & Maintain

Biological Vulnerability
(High emotional sensitivity)
×
Invalidating Environment
(Emotions dismissed/punished)
Emotional Dysregulation

Result: Person never learns to regulate emotions, trust their own responses, or tolerate distress → pervasive dysfunction

Creation of Problems

  • Born with heightened emotional sensitivity
  • Raised in environment that invalidates emotional experiences
  • Never develop effective emotion regulation skills
  • Learn maladaptive coping (self-harm, avoidance)

Maintenance of Problems

  • Maladaptive behaviours are negatively reinforced (reduce distress temporarily)
  • Emotional dysregulation creates more invalidating responses from others
  • Vicious cycle: emotions → dysfunctional behaviour → negative consequences → more emotions

Core Philosophy: Dialectics

The Central Dialectic

ACCEPTANCE (of who you are now)
⚖️ CHANGE (building a life worth living)

Both are necessary. Both are valid. The synthesis creates transformation.

Structure of DBT Treatment

The Multi-Modal Approach

1. Individual Therapy

Weekly, 50-60 minutes

Focus on:

  • Reducing life-threatening behaviours
  • Decreasing therapy-interfering behaviours
  • Reducing quality-of-life-interfering behaviours
  • Increasing skilful behaviour

2. Skills Training Group

Weekly, 2-2.5 hours (separate from individual)

Psychoeducational format teaching the four skill modules

This is group therapy, not individual therapy in a group setting

3. Phone Coaching

As needed, between sessions

Brief calls to help clients:

  • Use skills in real-time crises
  • Generalise skills to daily life
  • Repair relationships after conflict

4. Consultation Team

Weekly therapist meeting

Therapists meet to:

  • Stay motivated and avoid burnout
  • Maintain adherence to DBT principles
  • Consult on difficult cases
  • This is DBT for the therapists

Key Structural Point

  • Skills training is delivered separately from individual therapy
  • Different functions: Individual = motivation & application; Group = learning
  • Requires team approach – not solo practice

The Four Skills Modules

The Dialectical Structure of Skills

ACCEPTANCE Skills

Surviving the present moment

  • ✓ Mindfulness (core for all)
  • ✓ Distress Tolerance

CHANGE Skills

Building a life worth living

  • ✓ Mindfulness (core for all)
  • ✓ Emotion Regulation
  • ✓ Interpersonal Effectiveness

CORE SKILL (Foundation for Everything)

M Mindfulness

Being present and aware in the current moment

  • What skills: Observe, Describe, Participate
  • How skills: Non-judgementally, One-mindfully, Effectively
  • Awareness without attachment
  • Required for both acceptance AND change

ACCEPTANCE SKILLS

When you cannot change the situation or your emotions are too high for change work

D Distress Tolerance

Surviving crises without making things worse

  • Crisis survival skills: TIPP (Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing), ACCEPTS, Self-Soothe, IMPROVE, STOP
  • Reality acceptance skills: Radical Acceptance, Turning the Mind, Willingness, Half-Smiling
  • Tolerating pain without impulsive action
  • Accepting reality as it is, even when it's painful

CHANGE SKILLS

When you can actively work to change emotions, behaviours, or situations

E Emotion Regulation

Understanding and changing emotional responses

  • Understanding the function of emotions
  • Reducing vulnerability: PLEASE (treat PhysicaL illness, balanced Eating, avoid mood-Altering drugs, balanced Sleep, Exercise)
  • Increasing positive emotions: Build Mastery, Pleasant Activities
  • Opposite Action: Acting opposite to emotion urge when emotion doesn't fit facts
  • Problem Solving: When emotion fits the facts

I Interpersonal Effectiveness

Getting what you need from relationships whilst maintaining self-respect

  • DEAR MAN: Objective effectiveness (getting what you want, saying no)
  • GIVE: Relationship effectiveness (maintaining the relationship)
  • FAST: Self-respect effectiveness (keeping your dignity)
  • Balancing objectives, relationships, and self-respect

Key Treatment Methods & Strategies

Validation

Six levels of validation, from being present to radical genuineness

Communicates that the person's responses make sense given their history and current situation

Irreverence

Strategic use of humour, confrontation, or "calling BS" to shake clients out of stuck patterns

The dialectical opposite of validation—therapists move fluidly between acceptance and pushing for change

Behavioural Chain Analysis

Detailed analysis of problem behaviours from vulnerability factors through consequences

Identifies where to intervene and which skills to use

Diary Cards

Daily self-monitoring of target behaviours, emotions, and skill use

Reviewed every individual session to track progress and guide treatment

Commitment Strategies

Techniques to strengthen client commitment to change

Includes playing devil's advocate, foot-in-the-door, connecting to values

Key Contrasts with Standard CBT Approaches

What Makes DBT Distinctive?

  • Dialectical philosophy: Accepts paradox; holds acceptance and change in tension rather than prioritising change
  • Validation is primary: Without validation, change strategies backfire with this population
  • Comprehensive system: Not just techniques but a complete treatment framework requiring team delivery
  • Biosocial theory: Explains how problems develop through transaction between biology and environment
  • Behavioural focus: Targets behaviours (especially life-threatening ones) before cognitions
  • Skills training as separate component: Psychoeducation happens in group, not individual therapy
  • Between-session coaching: Therapist availability for brief skills coaching
  • Therapist consultation team: Required component to prevent burnout and maintain adherence